Entry #8: Is it a Diamond?

 Engagement rings can be a controversial topic. Traditionally they're a simple band with a diamond.

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Typically taught in elementary school we learn that diamonds are a level 10 on the Mohs scale of mineral hardness. This means that diamonds are the hardest mineral. While diamonds are known to be extremely durable they tend to be expensive. According to The Diamond Pro "the cost of a one carat diamond can range from just $1,500 to more than $16,000 for an extremely well-cut, high-quality diamond". Not only are diamonds expensive but they can be unethically sourced. 

Unethically sourced diamonds are known as blood diamonds or conflict diamonds. These diamonds are mined and sold illegally to fund rebel groups. Sometimes these diamonds are mined by children. 

To avoid having these types of diamonds there's a certification called the Kimberley process that prevents blood diamonds from being sold. There are other options such as lab grown diamonds or other gem stones. 

One option is moissanite, which is about 9.5 on the Mohs scale. Lab made moissanite has a smaller carbon footprint than a mined gem such as a diamond. They have a brilliance that gives off a rainbow reflection. Moissanite can range between $200 and $600 for one carat. This makes it a more affordable option that looks similar to a diamond. 

Another option is a colorless sapphire. Sapphires are a 9 on the Mohs scale, which is still extremely durable but less than moissanites or diamonds. They can range from $25 to $11,000 per carat depending on the quality and cut. 

While traditionally diamonds are used for engagement rings any stone can be used. There are different types that look similar to diamonds that you can get a a lower cost. Majority of people wouldn't be able to tell the difference between the gem stones.